Arley Cox

Singer . Songwriter . Mentor .

 Judgement

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Week 2-judgement


Judgement plays a huge role in our ability to claim space as a writer and an artist

This week we are going to deep dive into the voice of our inner critic

The voice that tells us

We aren’t good enough

We have nothing important to offer

What will people think and say

All of our art is worthless.

You know the voice….

This week we are going to find out weather that voice is the voice of truth

or if its actually a big lie…

Judgement VideO


Judgement Script

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ExErcises

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EXERCISES

Let’s Get To Know Your Writing Voice

Use your imagination to start giving your writing voice a personality and shape. Go wide with these exercises.

The questions used here are not to be taken literally…….

They are for play and exploration into deeper parts of our beautiful minds.

1. Feel free to pick three (or all) of these questions and write a response to them how you see fit

  • Who is the voice that peaks through your writing?

  • What does it sound like?

  • Is it strong, angry, elated, joyful, scared, tentative?

  • What does it have to say to you?

  • Does it want to tell you a story? If so……What kind of story?

  • Does it want to sing you a song? If so….What does it sound like?

  • Does your writing voice require some extra loving kindness?

  • If your writing voice was your best friend what would you tell it?

  • How would you talk to it?

  • Is your writing voice kind or mean?

2. Lets Get Outside and Observe

  • Take your writing on a walk…look for simple things ie (a tree blowing in the wind, a car driving by, the feel of the air on your skin)

  • Observe how many ideas you can attach to the simple scene think colour, texture, light, sound, smell.

  • Feel into how your brain takes in that information

  • Are you falling into self Judgement or are you simply taking in….the information the outside world is giving to you

  • Allow yourself to write freely…..a poem, song, stream of consciousness with no expectations on outcome

3. Let’s Let Go Of Expectations

Just for today I would like you to try to let go of expectations around your writing practice. Allow it to flow freely and wildly, let it move. When we place expectations on our art we tend to block ourselves from experiencing freedom and openness.

Think Of A Few Expectations You Can Try To Let Go Of?

  • Maybe it’s the expectation of perfection

  • Maybe its the expectation of being incredible right away

  • Maybe its the expectation that writing should come easy and when it doesn’t we feel bad

  • Maybe its the expectation that we wont make mistakes

Take a few moments and think about how we can put so many limits on ourselves by creating expectations.

Today Let’s Commit To The Art Of Practice

4. Let’s Write A PIECE

This week lets start working on a piece of writing.

It can be a song, poem, stream of consciousness….etc etc etc…. Let it be wild and messy. Save your favorite small chunk of it to share with someone you trust.

Let go of the negative self talk and army of judgement……Sit With It…..And Let It Be!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing
— George Bernhard Shaw

Extras

Elizabeth Gilbert

TedTalk

Your Elusive Genius

Everything You Need To Write A Poem (and how it can save a life)

By

Daniel Tysdal


Podcast and a poem

Here is a little podcast I made “The Gift” Its a poem I wrote.

The Poem is about how each and every one of us has a gift within our souls.

We usually don’t even know we have it.

It doesn’t always have to be something big….it can be as simple as a smile shared with a stranger.

If I could gift you anything within this circle it would be to have you believe

That you have something amazing to share within your heart.

Not everyone will get it

But that’s just the thing

It might not be for everybody

Its not supposed to be for everybody

The People who do get it though

Will be granted the biggest most gorgeous gift

A little piece of your heart

After listening…….

Name some of your gifts that you possess. Make the list as long as your arm if you like!!!!!

This Podcast can be found on any platform

If you can’t open this link on your phone or computer no worries

You can go to anywhere you get your podcasts from

CastBox

Spotify

Apple Podcasts

Overcast

Anchor

The Podcast is called “The Creative Journey” with Arley Cox


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Invitations

This week we took a little look at Judgment

  • Lets remind ourselves to be gentle in this process, letting go of deep patterning can be tricky

  • Keep up with the free writing YOU GOT THIS!!

  • Start thinking about a small step into sharing something if you haven’t yet

  • Start thinking about how you can celebrate yourself

  • Zoom Meeting on Thursday night to talk about the week

  • pssssst you are a gift

  • you deserve to be heard

  • you are miraculous

I am so glad you are here with us

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