Arley Cox

Singer . Songwriter . Mentor .

 Honouring

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Week 4-HonouRing


Honouring

Welcome to week 4 Honouring

This week we are going to practice an extra gentleness with ourselves.

We are going to take some space to honour just how brave we have been so far.

Its not easy to show up for yourself…..Look At You!! You are here and you are doing it!

This is also the time in any course where we all need a little extra energy and a push!

Im here to tell you

Keep it up! You are Miraculous and incredible!

I cannot wait to hear all of your stories and poetry and writing

Honouring VideO


HonourinG Script

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Exercises

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Exercises

My Love Letter…..To Myself

This weeks exercise is all about honouring our brave hearts…

Taking a moment to write down some things that we are learning to love about ourselves and our journey. We are going to write a Love letter to ourselves. Let’s Start small.

  1. Identify the top 8 qualities you love about yourself (I am kind, I am generous, I love animals, I am understanding, I am strong)

  2. For each quality write down how these attributes have helped or benefited you (My strength has benefited me through my life by allowing me to stand up for what I believe in. It has kept me safe in times of struggle) feel free to keep this as short as you want to. As I was working through this exercise I was really able to let loose and allow the words to fly.

  3. Note several ways to honour the qualities (I can honour my strength by acknowledging how hard it is to be strong and that sometimes its ok to show my softer side and allow my strength time to breathe, I honour my strength for how it has protected me)

  4. If you feel like sharing any part of this exercise on the facebook group that would be amazing! We will be honoring each other together

Make a Gift of inheritance

This weeks second exercise is to think of someone who is very special to your heart and gift them a piece of your work.

Make sure the person you are going to gift a piece of your writing to is open to receive it

A Trusted Friend Or Partner Or Family Member is best

Write what comes from your heart

It can be a love letter to them

It can be a letter of honouring them

It can be a letter of appreciation

It can be about a favourite spot

About a place you both enjoy

Open your heart to the idea that a little piece of your writing could make someones day

You are then going to honour this piece by giving it to them like you would an inheritance

You gift them the full rights

There is something really special when you gift a piece of your work in this way

It becomes its own energy….more than the sum of its parts

I have been thinking a lot about my writing and who I’d like to entrust it to when I am no longer able to write

Its fascinating to think that whatever we make as original works, we are able to gift them to people to protect for us.

It’s a big deal and one that I would like to dive deeper into


If there’s a book that you want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it.
— Toni Morrison

Extras

Why You Should Write

Cecilia Knapp

Cultivating Unconditional Self-Worth

Adia Gooden


Podcast and a poem

“The Creative Journey” with Arley Cox

Recorded on October 19th 2019

If you can’t open this link on your phone or computer no worries

You can go to anywhere you get your podcasts from

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The Podcast is called “The Creative Journey” with Arley Cox


Invitations

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  • This week is all about loving on the small things

  • It’s not about how much writing we have done

  • It’s not about the quality of work we have put out

  • it’s about honouring the practice

  • Honouring the time

  • Honouring the stories and the feelings and the words

  • Honouring the smooth patches as well as the bumps

  • What does honoring your work look and feel like to you?

  • Does it feel uncomfy

  • Does it feel good

  • No matter how it feels to you I honour you exactly as you are and where you are in the process

  • What small thing could you do for yourself this week to celebrate your accomplishments


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